If I Had The Love I Wanted, What Would Today Look Like?

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If I had the love I wanted, what would today look like?*

I am somewhat confused about this topic. as many thoughts are swirling in my mind. However, reflecting on it. I believe that of I had the love I desired, my day would be filled with happiness, routine, and deep emotional connection. Let me outline what a such a day might look like. 

In the morning, I would wake up feeling content, seeing my partner beside me. I would kiss his forehead and say, "Good morning, honey," or perhaps he would do the same to me. We would pray shubuh together, fostering a sense of shared spiritually. He would then prepare for work while I got ready for breakfast. We would eat together, engaging in light conversation about our plans for the day. Before he left,  he would kiss my forehead, leaving me with a warm feeling. 

Throughout the day,  I would tidy up our home, write on my blog about our love story, read a book to nurture my personal interests. In the evening, before he arrived home, I would send him a text saying, "Miss you." Upon his return, he might bring me a red flower as a small gesture of affection. After he showered, we would have dinner together, pray isya as a couple, and share stories from our day, strengthening our bond.

In conclusion, this idealized day represents the harmony and fulfillment that true love could bring. While I am still figuring out my feelings on this topic, it highlights the importance of emotional intimacy in daily life. 

*) Brianna Wiest 101 Essays that will Change the way You Think (p. 138)