Letters to Myself

What are a few things you thought you would never get over while you were going through them?*

There was a time when I truly believed I would never see the light again. My darkness era felt like a permanent sentence. It was a season of crying without reasons, of feeling entirely numb, and watching the world lose all its meaning.

I thought my life was ruined. But looking back today, I realize that the greatest miracle wasn't that the darkness suddenly disappeared. It was that I chose to keep moving through it anyway.

Slowly, piece by piece, life is reclaiming its color. I am finding my light again. If you are currently in your own dark tunnel, please remember: it is okay if you can only see an inch in front of you. Just keep walking. Everything is temporary, and one day, you will look back and thank yourself for holding on.

*) Brianna Wiest 101 Essays will Change the Way You Think (p. 140)

What are your greatest accomplishment so far?*

My greatest accomplishment isn't something the world can see or measure. It is the fact that I am finally learning to listen to what my soul is truly saying. For a long time, I was terrified of choosing my own peace. I worried that stepping back made me selfish, but the truth was simpler: my mind and body desperately needed a rest from this loud, busy world.

Today, I am still practicing the art of listening to myself. Understanding what she needs and what she doesn't. Whenever the noise of sudden desires forces me to rush, I pause and ask my heart: “Is this a genuine need, or is it just my nafs?” I know this journey isn't easy, but I am deeply proud of how far I’ve come. Because finally, I am brave enough to choose my well-being over everything else.

*) Brianna Wiest 101 Essays will Change the Way You Think (p. 140)

I feel like I'm at a point where I don't really know myself, my desires, or my future anymore. Everything feels blurred and mixed together. There are things I desperately want, but I’m terrified of being disappointed again. I am afraid that chasing my dreams might drag me back into that same darkness era I fought so hard to escape.

But at the same time, I know I cannot just stay in my comfort zone. A safe space can be deceptive; it makes me complacent and tricks me into forgetting my dreams, making it feel like everything is already done and there is nothing left to chase.

So here I am, still questioning my life and doubting my choices. Is it wrong? Is it right? I don't always know. But in the midst of the confusion, I have to keep anchoring myself. I have to remind my heavy heart that as long as I am walking on Allah's path, everything will eventually be okay.

You question yourself.

You doubt your life.

You feel miserable some days.

This means you're still open to growth.*

*) Brianna Wiest 101 Essays that will Change the way You Think (p. 45)

Yesterday, right after I got home, a friend texted me out of the blue and asked me to join our school reunion. Without thinking twice, I agreed, got ready, and headed straight to her house so we could go together. Before we left, my mom mentioned that I might run into an old friend from senior high school. He is currently teaching at my old junior high, and my mom still remembers him fondly—he was the only boy who came to visit my father when he was in the hospital.

When we arrived, I didn't even notice him until he approached me first! His eyes lit up with genuine joy when he saw me. It has been almost 8 or 9 years since we last crossed paths. He smiled and greeted me enthusiastically, and we caught up for a moment. He asked what I was up to these days, and I told him that I teach English. Shortly after, I excused myself to go greet some other friends.

I don't know why, but his smile left me feeling so calm. I still remember how back in high school, we used to argue about absolutely everything; he was stubborn, but he was also a great leader. Yet, right beside him, I always felt like I could be completely myself. I don't know his current relationship status, but as far as I know, he hasn't married yet.

Am I falling in love? Is it love at first sight? Wait... after everything I’ve been through in my darkness era, am I really allowed to feel this again? Why does meeting him make me this happy?

My mind is spinning, and I don't fully understand what I'm feeling just yet. But I’ve decided to let it be. If we are destined to be in each other's lives, the universe will always find a way to bring us back together.

What is the most important things that must happen today?*

The most important thing is that I can teach my class about "family" well. To be honest, I am very nervous today. Sometimes I still get confused between cousin, nephew, and niece. I feel scared because I am not teaching children today; I am teaching teachers from another school.

But I believe that if I study hard, I can do it well. Teachers are human too. We are not always perfect or clever. Teachers can feel nervous, overthink, and make mistakes sometimes. However, we must face every problem. We can only control our preparation, and the rest is out of our control. Keep it up! You can do it!

*) Brianna Wiest 101 Essays that will Change the way You Think (p. 138)