Reflection Journal 27: Redefining Success

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When I once asked him, "How do you define success in life?"

He answered,

"Sometimes, a simple thing is a success. Sometimes I don't have specific goals, but I have dreams. If they come true, I will be happy. I am  not overthinking about the future now. I live my days as they come. I don't know where I will end up, but I always remain optimistic about the best."

I was quiet. I never imagined his answer would be like that. 

A simple thing is a success.

Sometimes, we forgot to appreciate ourselves for the small things. We only focus on the big achievements, forgetting that the big things never come without the small steps. In today's world, scrolling through social media and seeing many different people living what appears to be seemingly perfect lives. Maybe some of us find ourselves trying to copy them by buying expensive things, going to abroad for vacation, and posting pictures on our social media to get "likes."

I have to admit, there were times I tried like what they did. But in the end? I felt like I was chasing something I could never fully become.  I can't be someone's life. I used to think that success meant when you can achieve something big, earn much money, or you can buy an expensive car or house.

But then, I understood.

We can't define our success based on someone else's standards. Often, we are so focused on the result that we forget to value the journey itself: the effort, the prayers, the patience, and the growth align teh way. We tend to rush, hoping everything will fall into place as soon as possible.

From his statement, I realized that I rarely appreciate myself for the small things. I have been so focused on the big goals then I end up overthinking. Now, I am learning to slow down, acknowledge my progress, and celebrate even the litte victories. Because sometimes, those small things are the real definition of success.

There is no "late." I only know one thing about myself: I have dreams, and I will fight for them with patience. My time will come.

Be patient, dear one. 

Accept where you are today, because growth take times. You are not defined by the end result. You are defined by the efforts you give and the love you share to others. 

You cannot define your worth by the end results of your efforts: because you are not the author of your life. God is.  

-Rara Noormega-


With love,

Ihat

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